Now, remember - according to my theory, you interfered with your parents first meeting. If they don't meet, they won't fall in love, they won't get married and they won't have kids. That's why your older brother's disappearing from that photograph. Your sister will follow, and unless you repair the damage, you'll be next.
I usually get every upgrade... even the upgrades are $200!
of course, it is a very steep learning curve.. it took me years
before I began to have much proficiency with it.
What makes it easier now is that you can google a tutorial for anything
that you want to do, it's so much better than when I started learning how
to use it.. back then I had to ask people that knew if they would tell me
how to do it..